Relationships flow when there is a willingness to let it take its course, without controlling the relationship. Controlling the relationship places limitations and restrictions. When restrictions and limitations are present in any relationship (e.g., marriage, significant other, family, friends or coworkers), creativity does not exist.
I’d rather be in a relationship that has creativity. Creativity opens the door to peace, harmony, love, and spontaneity! Who wants a boring and predictable relationship? Not me… 😊
So, what do you do when your relationship becomes predictable and boring?
If your relationship becomes a routine – predictable – boring flow in your life.
-Change it!
–Start with #1…You!
We can create change in our life and relationships, by changing our thoughts about the person. I provide three crucial mistakes women make in their relationship with others in the 3 Mistakes That Stop You From Finding Love Again!
It is possible to find love again! Just imagine if you could find love again and start looking forward to your new life. It may seem hard to imagine even if you’re single, married, separated, divorced, or currently in a committed relationship.
Whether there is a break-down of the communication in the relationship or the relationship severed from a divorce or a separation, that break-up left you with an experience of loss. But I want you to know that it is possible to let go of the disappointment or pain from your past, stop experiencing unfulfilling relationships, and experience love again.
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I like to paraphrase a quote by Mahatma Ghandhi and explain like this:
If you can keep your thoughts positive, your thoughts become your words. This may seem a very simple task, but it may not be as easy as it seems. Quite often, people are bombarded by issues of life that can weigh you down. Eventually your words, if not positive, will become your behavior. When this happens, we appear to be short tempered, or have an attitude. Repeating a negative behavior will become a habit that goes unnoticed. That’s why he tells us to keep our habits positive, because it will become your values. Your values are what you cherish and believe to be important to you. Finally, he tells us to keep our values positive. Focusing our our values will guide us to our destiny.
Positive thoughts, words, behaviors, habits and values plays an important role in every part of our lives.
Try this affirmation for Letting Relationships Flow…
Today I will stop trying to control my relationships. I will participate at a reasonable level and let the other person do the same. I can let go, knowing that the relationship will find its own life -or not- and that I don’t have to do all the work only my share.
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