manage stress

Running out of gas? Want to avoid stress and burnout? If you find yourself worrying about you’re your bills, meeting deadlines at work, or other life circumstances and desire to have better results? You may be experiencing burnout. Please continue to read this valuable information to recognize the signs of burnout before it’s too late.

According to a study performed by Sherrie Bourg Carter Psy.D., in Psychology Today: Burnout is not a simple result of long hours. The doubt, depression, and weariness of burnout can occur when you’re not in control of how you carry out your job, when you’re working toward goals that don’t resonate with you, and when you lack social support. If you don’t tailor your responsibilities to match your true calling, or at least take a break occasionally, you could face a mountain of mental and physical health problems.

Here are a few stress reduction goals, ranked in order of difficulty to accomplish, that you can stagger throughout the year to help you create a healthier, happier, and less stressed life for yourself.


Learn to Breathe. 

I know, sounds stupid, right? Everyone knows how to breathe. It’s involuntary. But few people know how to breathe correctly. By learning to breathe correctly and training yourself to use this technique when you’re feeling stressed, you will always have an immediate and highly effective weapon in your arsenal to combat stress.

  • Start by pulling in air through your nose and bringing it all the way down through your abdomen. You should be able to see and feel your abdomen swell slightly.
  • Then, let the air out slowly through your mouth.
  • This type of deep breathing expands your lung capacity and fully oxygenates your blood, which then carries that blood to your muscles and tissues. The result is a reduction in muscle tension and an overall sense of calm and well-being.

Do a Mental Scan of Your Body.

A few times a day, especially when you’re feeling stressed, take a few minutes to do a mental scan of your body for hot spots of stress. Where is the tension? In your neck? Your stomach? Your back? Once you locate the hot spot(s), concentrate on that body part and imagine replacing the tension with warmth, lightness, and relaxation.


Laughter replenishes the mind and is a quick, easy, and effective way to reduce stress. Smiling can have the same effect. So …

  • Watch a comedy.
  • Surround yourself with funny people.
  • Do things that make you laugh.
  • Smile at people as you walk past them.
  • Studies have found that even faking laughter has beneficial effects, so go for it!


Make Deep Breathing a Habit.

Deep breathing is only an effective stress reduction technique if you train yourself to use it regularly. That’s not as easy as it sounds. When you’re stuck in traffic, when you’re waiting in line, when you’re sure your computer is purposefully messing with you, or when you’re faced with any other similarly irritating experience, blood pressure rises, heart rate increases, and breathing tends to become rapid and shallow. This means that you must condition yourself to pay attention to your breathing throughout the day just as most of us have conditioned ourselves to grab our purses or wallets when we leave home or check our messages when we hear a beep.


Literally. Dedicate a specific period each day to turn off all of your electronic devices and clear your mind. (Although this may seem like it should qualify as “easy,” in today’s 24/7 world and with society’s addiction to technology, it’s not any easy thing to do for most people.)



Although exercise is an excellent way to reduce stress, if it isn’t already a part of your routine, it can be hard to find the energy, motivation, and time to add it. But even if you can’t build a full workout into your schedule, there are things you can do to fit physical activity into your daily routine.

  • Walk or bike instead of drive to places near your home.
  • If you take a bus or subway, get off a few stops before your destination and walk.
  • Take the stairs instead of the elevator.
  • Take a brisk walk during your lunch break.
  • Do calf raises at your desk, using your own muscles as resistance.
  • Do bicep curls while sitting in traffic.


Over-commitment and over-scheduling is one of the most frequently cited sources of stress, and in today’s hectic and fast-paced world, it is difficult to get a handle on. But there are things you can do to not bury yourself.

  • Streamline by delegating or completely removing unimportant or unnecessary tasks from your schedule.
  • If household responsibilities are dragging you down, consider hiring a housecleaning service, shop online for food and other household items, start using a meal preparation and delivery service, or assign specific chores to other family members to cut down on your load.
  • Plan your day, piece by piece, including mapping out time for tasks you don’t normally schedule in your planner, such as phone calls, note taking, or report writing.
  • Build a cushion into your scheduling by give yourself an extra 10 or 15 minutes between appointments to return calls, make up for running overtime, or to just decompress.
  • Just say no.

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